Barbara M. Bennett
Barbara was born August 18, 1911 in Walkerville, Montana to R. Martyn and Clara Richards. She was one of 7 children who lived to adulthood. Martyn and Clara also lost 2 children before the age of 3. Her siblings were Lucy born 1900, Martyn 1903, Alice 1907, Ernestine 1910, Ruth 1915, and Phyllis 1921. Walkerville was a small suburb just on the outskirts of Butte Montana. The family had moved there to find work in the mines.
As a young girl, Barbara was a shy tomboy who mainly spent her time with her family and church. She always loved music and art and was unaware of her own talents until her senior year of high school when she signed up for 2 art classes and was mentored by the art teacher who could clearly see her talents.
Barbara met Benny Raymond James Bennett at her Methodist church in the choir. Benny was not normally a church boy but he loved to sing, had a beautiful voice and an eye for Barbara. Barbara always said he had the ‘voice of an angel’. Barbara and Benny were married and moved to Seattle to find work. They survived the depression by selling homemade donuts to local business and Benny worked for the WPA. Barbara and Benny had 2 sons, Ernest and Nicky and remained in the Seattle area for the remainder of their lives. Benny worked in many different industries, was an avid bowler and became an excellent carpenter. Barbara went to work for the phone company as an operator at the age of 40. She worked there until they forced her to retire at 65. Her pension far outlived her work years.
Barbara’s hobbies continued to center around art. She enjoyed painting with her sister Lucy, singing in church, and working in her garden. She loved spending time with her nieces, nephews, her children and her grandchildren. Barbara passed on her love of the arts to many, encouraging others to draw, sing, sew and pursue their interests and talents. Barbara had a deep faith and was involved in numerous churches throughout her life. She chose her church based on the teachings and the music, denomination was secondary.
Barbara lost Benny in April of 1982 after a bout with cancer. Barbara remained in the home that Benny had built for them until 2002 when she moved into an assisted living facility. Benny continued to provide for Barbara as it was the sale of the home that supported her until her passing this year.
Barbara spent her time in Village Green and then The Woodmark being very social, attending many of the musical events and outings that were offered. She enjoyed being surrounded by people after living alone for so long and had wonderful friendships with residents and care givers in both facilities.
Barbara passed peacefully and quietly surrounded by loved ones. After a dinner with friends, she went to sleep and walked into the arms of God.
Barbara is survived by many family members who will miss her dearly. Ernest Bennett and his children and grandchildren Matt, Abby, and Anthony, Raymond ‘Nicky’ Bennett and his wife Jan and their children and grandchildren Katie Donny, Mariah, Deena, and Eric Melissa; as well as her two oldest granddaughters from Nicky’s first marriage: Suzanne Martinson Dave, Josh and Bryce and Rene’ Suruda Ed, Sam, and Annie. Barbara is also survived by her younger sister Phyllis Cannon.
A Memorial Service to celebrate Barbara’s memory will be held Saturday, April 25, 2009 at 2:00pm at Bonney-Watson Federal Way, 1535 SW Dash Pt. Rd. Federal Way, WA 98023 253 839-7317. There will be a family reception following.
Grandma Bennett left a legacy of equally outstanding women – my love and condolences to each of you.
Janet
Happy Mother’s Day. To church, I wore the awesome, beautifully hand embroidered vest that you created back in the 1970’s and so graciously passed on to me. I will keep the pinned note with your signature on the inside of the pocket forever. Friends assumed that I had created the lovely vest. I loved being able to tell them who the real creator was and how you influenced my love of creative sewing. I could pass this lovely vest on to any of your relatives when I pass on. I’ll need a name to put in the pocket.
I was saddened to hear of Barbara’s passing. I worked with her in Burien at “The Phone Company”. Our office felt like a family and she was one of the sweetest members, someone with a big heart. Always a smile and a kind word. Her artistic ability was one of her shining attributes, although she was not one to beat her own drum. I remember her asking if she could sketch a picture that was taken of me at the office and I thought nothing further of it. To my surprise she came in one day and presented me with a wonderful, lifelike portrait she had done in charcoal. I still have it. We can be thankful that art teacher encouraged her and gave her the confidence to develop her talent. We can also be thankful that she had such a warm loving family surrounding her, whose love I’m sure she returned.
My condolences to all of you.
I am so sorry to hear about Barbara’s passing away. It seems she had a wonderful life. The things I remember about Barbara are the sweet things she did for others and the wonderful smile she had. It was a pleasure working with her. May she rest in peace.
Aunt Barbara was, and still is one of the most loving and caring people we shared our lives with. Whenever we would see her she would ALWAYS say, “Jim & Lois. How nice it is to see you”. She ment it and we had the same feeling. That twinkle in her eyes never faded, and the hugs were great. We love you Barbara. ALWAYS
JIM & LOIS
With sympathy to the family.
I have such fond memories of Auntie Barbara – her silly but fun basket chair love seeing her picture sitting in it, her amazing garden, her creative eye, and her loving soft touch. Her home always felt like a sanctuary and although I haven’t seen her in years, I will miss her.
As a friend of Rene’s for 32 years, I was fortunate enough to know Grandma Bennett. She was such a warm and loving person. Everyone who met her felt her warmth and positive attitude. She will be missed.
I am so sorry for your loss! She sounds like a wonderful and inspiring person and although I did not know her personally, her lovely family carries on her spirit. My deepest sympathies-
Leisa Ruble Johnston
Gramma Bennet was a wonderfull lady alway happy and full of life.
So sorry for your loss, but so happy for Aunt
Barbara. As you said in the lovely obituarie she is with the Lord.
My sister Tina and I will be there to celebrate her life with you. Love Judy Hess Anderson
I worked with Barbara at the phone company in the 70’s and 80’s until her retirement. I remember how artistic she was, and how we shared our love of photography. She took pictures of all the employees before she retired.
Please accept my condolences!
Regards,
Vickie Hollaway
Burien, WA
I miss our chats on the telephone. You always recognized my voice and called me by name until a month before you passed on. Sometimes you referred to me as your daughter. I never corrected you. I loved you like a Mother. You were precious to me. I love and miss you. Ruth Ann
I miss my mom.
Sleep in peace, Mom. I already miss having you in my life.
If you look in any encyclopedia under perfect grandmother you will see a photo of Grandma Bennett. What a wonderful women who showed love to everyone she met. I am thrilled to have known her. I have great memories of her husband who gave me bowling tips when I was in middle school. Then we would go over to their house and have lunch.
We’ll miss you Gram!
What a sweet woman. She always had a story to share and a smile for all. I’ll remember the dolls she made, her paintings,pieces of fabric for tissues and all of the times she joined our family for celebrations. I’m so thankful she lived a long, healthy life and shared it with all of us.
Grandma was cheerful and sweet right up to the end. She died peacefully with words of love surrounding her. My memories of her are of unwavering love and support. I love her very much and will miss her. Suzanne