Aaron James Stagliano
July 22, 2006 - January 20, 2022
Obituary
Aaron James Stagliano, our beloved son, brother and grandchild, passed away unexpectedly from seizure complications on Thursday morning, January 20, 2022, at his home in Tacoma, Washington. He was 15 years old.
Aaron was born in July 2006 at Madigan Army Medical Center in Tacoma, WA, to parents Nick and Jackie Stagliano.
Aaron was a very special child who touched the many people he met with his pleasant and loving personality, quirky sense of humor, positive energy, and his beautiful, broad smile. Even though he couldn’t speak words, he learned to communicate in his own distinctive way through his intense hugs that spoke volumes of his love and appreciation. Aaron loved music and frequently showed off his energy with unique rocking dance moves. He especially enjoyed playing his own DJ mix of tunes on his eye-gaze communicator. He could listen to “Believer” by Imagine Dragons in repeated succession and never get bored. Never far from his bed or his arms was his favorite talking toy dog “Scout” who would sing, talk and call Aaron by name. Aaron loved hearing his name in stories and songs, and often spoke about himself and his family through his communicator. Another favorite activity included splashing water, whether it was the sink, shower or lake, always having a good time. His extraordinary talent was to instinctively balance objects between his fingers, almost like a magician. He could twirl spoons, drumsticks, and even heavier objects, in both hands, with an uncanny precision and rhythm we could never replicate. He often used this skill to calm his mind or avoid classroom work, always giving his signature smile to indicate that he knew he was probably getting his way. Aaron could also maneuver his walker throughout the house, usually ready to empty the kitchen drawers of measuring cups, silverware, grab a hold of an unattended cell phone, or zeroing in on the TV remote (it must be a guy thing). While Aaron never took an unassisted step in his lifetime, he’s the one who actually carried us on a wonderful journey filled with faith, hope, and love. During any family event we’d often ask each other, “Who’s got Aaron?” to make certain he was being attended to. We now know the answer forevermore to our question is, “God’s got Aaron.”
Aaron’s family would like to thank the team of school teachers, para-educators, therapists, bus drivers and monitors who supported Aaron in his education, exploration, and making friends. We especially thank all the doctors, therapists, homecare providers, and nurses who provided Aaron outstanding care and the ability to continue living his best life. And most importantly, we thank our family and friends for their love and support that helped Aaron develop and thrive throughout his lifetime.
Aaron is survived by his loving parents; four older siblings Evan (Amanda), Taylor, Eric, and Ryan; adoring grandparents John and Dora Ball (Tacoma) and Nick and Helene Stagliano Jr. (Newburgh, NY); and numerous aunts, uncles, and cousins.
A funeral mass will be held on Thursday, February 17, 2022 at 1:00pm at St. Vincent De Paul Church, 30525 8th Ave S, Federal Way, WA 98003.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggests a donation be made to either one of the following local organizations that provided outstanding support and services to Aaron and to many other families with special children: Birth To Three Development (http://www.birthtothree.org) or Mary Bridge Good Samaritan Children’s Therapy Unit (https://support.multicare.org/site/Donation2?2265.donation=form1&df_id=2265&mfc_pref=T).
Jackie, Nick and Stagliano Family, Sad to hear of your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Tom and Michele Vitullo
Jackie and Nick – Leah and I are so sorry to hear about the loss of your son, Aaron. We will be thinking of you and praying for you during this difficult time.
Todd and Leah Gentile
Jackie, Nick and family, We are so sad to hear of your loss. Aaron’s life had a positive impact in this world and are sad God called him away so soon. We will pray for Aaron and all of you. “For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep.” 1 Thes 1:4
Nick and Jackie,
The news of Aaron’s passing just saddened me. I know he brought so much joy to everyone, especially the two of you. He will be watching over you and the family, and would not want you to be sad…but to rejoice that you got to spend time with him here on earth. He will ALWAYS be there in your hearts.
Hugs and prayers as you navigate through life without his laughter and smiles.
Jackie and Nick, I am so happy to read about who Aaron is to you so I understand how wonderful your journey has been with him. I am both sad for your loss and happy that he is now with His Maker. I will add Aaron and your family to my nightly prayers.
Jackie and Nick – Please accept our sincere condolences to you and your extended family on the passing of your son Aaron. You both will be in our thoughts and prayers and I hope that you take some comfort in having those beautiful memories of him.
Bob and Lisa Jackmore
Jackie and Nick – Heidi and I were deeply sorry to hear of your profound loss. Please accept our heartfelt condolences. With time, I hope your memories provide comfort and Aaron’s bright soul continues to shine through you, as Aaron remains forever in your heart.
Dear Jackie, Nick, and family,
My heart goes out to you for your loss of your dear Aaron. May our Lord comfort you in your grief and soon restore your joy knowing Aaron is with God. All the lovingkindness you have lavished on Aaron, you have also given unto the Lord. Well done, good and faithful parents!
Hugs!
Rest in peace Aaron.
Jackie and Nick,
I am so sorry to hear about Aaron’s passing. What a beautiful tribute to Aaron’s life. His personality really comes out in your words and in the pictures.
There had to be so many challenges and sacrifices thru-out the years for you and for Aaron’s siblings. I applaud you for the life you gave Aaron. How lucky was he to be born into your family.
Thinking of you and sending prayers for peace and healing.
Yes indeed, “God’s got Aaron”.
With love,
Lauren
Dear Jackie, Nick and family, Aaron had the best parents and family ever! The pictures prove it and that smile says it all; such a pure heart and soul. Hope you can manage the days ahead with the support of your family and friends. Our sincere condolences to you.
Jeannine and John Welcher
Jeanette Raboteau…in sorrow
Jackie, Nick and family…there are no words. Sorry isn’t enough! Prayers and hugs…
May God give your family the grace, peace and the comfort you need. He alone understands the pain. I will personally miss Aaron having served him for some time. His smile and laughter was contagious. R.I.P
My condolences to the Stagliano family.
I’m sorry to hear the sad news of Aaron’s departure and I pray that God gives your family the peace that surpasses all human understanding during this difficult time! You are in my prayers and thoughts.
Ian Kambutu
Kofi and Victoria Aboagye
Nick and Jackie so sorry to learn about Aaron’s passing. Praying for comfort and healing.
Kofi & Victoria Aboagye
Nick and Jackie – so sorry to hear of Aaron’s passing. May the memories of his life, his smile, and his love for family provide some comfort for you and your family in the days ahead. You are in our thoughts and prayers. ~ Bert and Rachel Diehl
William J Burbage
Nick, Jackie, than you for posting these beautiful pictures of your son Aaron. His smile could light up a room! You were so blessed to have him for the beautiful 15 years that you did. My thoughts and prayers continue to be with your entire family as you grieve the loss of your son. Love you guys. John
Jackie and Nick,
I was incredibly sad to hear of the loss of Aaron. Over the years I have witnessed the incredible care and love you gave him. Our hearts are broken, but we also know that he is now it a better place and giving us that incredible smile from above.
Joe Gramling
James and Patty Ball