Pre-planning with BONNEY WATSON ensures your wishes are honored and your family is supported.
Advanced Planning
Why Should You Plan in Advance?
When you are planning your arrangements in advance, you are looking to understand why our services are important enough for you to invest in. Death is a troubling topic for most, if not all, people we interact with daily.
By pre-planning your arrangements, you are able to consider your options and make choices without the heavy burden that accompanies a death. Pre-planning acts as an opportunity to discuss your wishes and desires with those closest to you, so the choices you make uphold the rituals and traditions most important to you.
Tell Your Story, Your Way
Many have a specific vision for how they’d like their life to be celebrated and remembered. By pre-planning, you’re given the freedom to choose the details of your service, ensuring it aligns with the values, experiences, and rituals most important to you.
Unique lives should be uniquely celebrated, and pre-planning allows you to create an experience for your loved ones to treasure for years to come. Explore the possibilities, and craft a celebration that is uniquely you.
Death is a taboo subject in many cultures, so talking to someone about pre-planning for their own death can be difficult. However, having a conversation with a loved one about their wishes is one of the best gifts they can give to their family.
A helpful way to approach a pre-planning conversation with a loved one is by engaging them in a conversation about what is important to them as they contemplate their final wishes. How do they want to be remembered? What traditions and rituals are important to them? It also helps to share stories about their past and reflect on their experiences that had special meaning to them.
It can be helpful to have an open conversation about how to balance your own wishes with what will bring comfort and healing to those you love. Sometimes people say things like, “Just keep it simple,” or “Don’t make a fuss,” but it’s important to remember that the arrangements made after a passing are also for the family and friends who remain.
Honoring your loved one’s wishes is deeply meaningful, and so is creating space for those left behind to grieve, reflect, and find comfort. Thoughtful planning can help ensure both needs are respected with care and understanding.
Advanced Planning FAQs
Find answers to your questions about our advanced planning services and how we can assist you.
Once you determine your funeral preferences, a BONNEY WATSON staff person will talk to you about your options and guide you in establishing your own plans. You should find the advice of your family, clergy, and your funeral director especially helpful when considering the options. We will then record certain vital information and gather documents for the required forms.
Next, you can select a casket, burial vault, urn, or other merchandise associated with the service you choose. Finally, you may pay for the services and merchandise ahead of time through our funding program.
A BONNEY WATSON staff member will meet with you at a time and location that is convenient and help you record your wishes. You choose everything you want for your funeral: the type of funeral or memorial service, casket, burial vault, urn, music, and flowers. There is absolutely no pressure; the decisions will be all yours. We will also help you record important obituary information. Once you have made your selections, you will learn the payment options available to you. A record of your selections will be kept on file at BONNEY WATSON until needed.
The cost is a matter of your choice. You are able to decide on the types of services and merchandise. Once details have been finalized, your BONNEY WATSON family service director will prepare an agreement and a fully itemized statement for your review, and detail your choices for payment.
BONNEY WATSON is licensed to sell prearrangement funeral service and cemetery contracts by the Washington State Department of Licensing. When you purchase a contract, we are required to deposit or invest a percentage of the money you pay in an insured account to protect your investment. In addition, the State monitors the status of our prearrangement trust funds.
Under the Federal Supplemental Security Income and Medicaid guidelines of the State of Washington, an irrevocable trust may be established if you are now, or expect to be in the near future, on public assistance. This means you may set any sum of money aside for your funeral, provided the money is specifically set aside for that purpose and can be supported with a list of selected services.
There are many benefits. Some people choose to plan ahead because they want to spare their family members from having to make decisions during a stressful time, easing the burden during their time of grief. Others have a definite preference concerning their funeral service, and they want their families to be informed and involved in those decisions.
Many people pre-arrange because they like the peace of mind knowing there will be adequate funds to cover funeral expenses. Pre-payment can provide real benefits when you are applying for Medicaid. BONNEY WATSON can provide details.
Most importantly, pre-arrangement allows you the time to make rational decisions without the usual urgency when death takes place.
Prepaying allows you to pay for the funeral of your choice before assets are used up for medical care and before assets are reduced to SSI or Medicaid eligibility levels.