Barbara Anne Stedman
May 31, 1936 - November 28, 2007
Obituary
Barbara Anne Stedman, age 71 passed away peacefully on November 28, 2007 in
Federal Way. A veteran of twenty years with the Boeing Company, Barbara is
survived by her daughters Julie K. Stedman and Kirsten A. Nelson Scott;
granddaughter, Marjana Nelson; brothers, Dr. William Jerome Diane and Dr.
Jerome T. Jerome II Sally and numerous nieces and nephews. She was
preceded in death by her husband Ronald K. Stedman in 1986 and their
daughter Jill Anne Stedman in 1961. A Memorial Service will be held on
Saturday, December 15, 2007 at 12:00 pm at BONNEY-WATSON Federal Way, 1535 SW Dash Point Road, Federal Way, WA 253 839-7317. Please sign the guest
book at www.bonneywatson.com. Donations in Barbara’s name can be made to
the American Cancer Society
Such an inspiration! A fulfillment of Galatians 5:22,23.
I miss Barb so much. I pass places we had so much fun and my heart aches.
She was truly an “earth angel” to many. Love and hugs to you all. Darlene
Julie & Kirsten,
I am so sorry that you are going through such a horrible loss. I know what a strong person Aunt Barb was and never complained. What a testament to her life. Strength and class – sums up the type of woman she was. Thank God she is not in pain anymore and you don’t have to watch her hurt. You both did so much to help her and that is more than so many people would have done. She will always be in your heart. Savor all those wonderful memories. She gave you so much love and you gave it back to her in spades. God Bless you all.
I have so many great memories of Barb, who started out as our next door neighbor and then became such an important part of my life and my Dad’s. I remember our many weekend excursions together which Barb and Charlie continued after I left for college, the summer days spent sunbathing, the fun holidays celebrated with the Stedman family, and so much more.
In more recent years, I cherish the fact that Barb came to my wedding in Hawaii in 2003, that we were able to attend a Mariners game together in Seattle in June 2005, and that she made a special effort to visit me during her ‘Stedman Girls Christmas Trip to NYC’ in December 2005.
Barb was such a fun, ‘together’ and motherly person – she was a wonderful presence in my life.
I’m very sad that I was unable to attend Barb’s services yesterday – I’m sure they were beautiful and moving. I’m so glad I was able to see her in June, to give her a big hug, and to tell her I loved her. This last visit was very precious to me, as Barb’s memory will always be.
Dear Kirsten, Scott , Mari and Julie,
My dear friends, thank you for bringing Barbara into our life and for sharing her kind and gentle presence with our family.
Novelle and I have such wonderful and fun memories of Barbara from years of sideline soccer cheerleading to always being by Kirsten’s side volunteering at Browns Point elementary school.
She made both Novelle and I feel very special. This gift from Barbara will stay with us forever.
Thank you.
Much love to her family.
Debbie Key and Family
Julie & Kirsten – Aunt Barb may be gone, but I can assure you, that you will still now & always receive her strength. Aunt Barb brought you this far, with all of her motherly love, knowledge and determination and I know, it’s not going to stop now – God Bless!
Barb was a totally “together” person. She was always professional in her work, yet ever gracious. She was largely responsible for the AST program always meeting its CDRL deliveries, and she always kept the closed area security paperwork up to date. And she kept the candy jar replenished!
Dear Stedman Family:
We go back along ways with your parents. I know your Mom had a hard roll after your Dad left. She is & was a great lady & I know you all are very proud of her. She will be missed by many, as we know she id better off as she could only handly so much pain. God Bless Her. Our love to all
Roy & Barbara Bettesworth
Mrs. Stedman was truly a gift to young people. I had the great opportunity to meet her in 1984 while I was attending high school with her daughter Kirsten.
Mrs. Stedman had a way of understanding what a teenager, such as myself at the time was going through. You never had to say to much, because she was able to hear your heart and offered advice based on that.
She has raised amazing daughters, which I am blessed to have as friends.
Mrs. Stedman, the world was made a better place because you were in it and you shared your love feely. Thank you for making a difference in a young persons life!
My Dear Precious Friend Barb,
In life, I believe, we do not just happen to meet certain people. God places them on our pathway of life. You were my close friend, confidant, support, always a focused listener, non- judgemental, and your beautiful smile lit my world and many others. I watched you struggle with this horrible disease. You kept up the fight like a real trooper never complaining, but just doing what you had to do to keep going. And, when you had a bit of extra energy, still continually tried to do what you could as you so LOVED life. I will miss you terribly my dear friend.
Love and a “bear” hug,
Darleen
Julie & Kirsten,
We have fond memories of our families together in Seattle with Aunt Barb leading the fun and frivolity! What a celebration of life. We praise God for her life and the blessing Aunt Bart was to all of us. May God comfort and bless you with the peace that passes all understanding. Love, Steve
We only knew Barb for a few years but loved her anyway. What a gracious and special woman to know. She always had time to talk and make sure we were alright but never complained about her own difficulties. We loved her and her family Kirsten, Scott and Mari. We want to be there for each of you as you have been for us.
Julie, Kirsten, Scott and Mari,
Our sincere sympathy to you. Your mother was a true friend and one we are going to miss forever. She meant the world to us.
Nancy & Jim Utz
We will really miss Barbara. She was a wonderful person. She had a unselfishness about her that really amazed the Ivery family. We feel so bless to have known her and spent some time with her.
Dear Julie, Kirsten and Family:
All my thoughts and prayers are with you. Barb was a wonderful friend and a complete joy to be with. Our memories of Barb we will keep forever. I will miss her more than words can say.
Dear Scott, Kirsten, Mauri andf family,
I am so sorry for the loss of your mother, grandmother and mother-in-law. I know you loved her very much and she will be missed by you all. God blessed you in the past and He will continue to bless you with a deep love for each other and relationships that are very satisfying to your life. There is nothing that can replace your mother and the love that you shared with her. She will be missed by all those who loved her.
I always enjoyed visiting with Barb when friends were gathered. She was always kind and had a smile that lit up the room. I will miss her, as I suspect many will.
Aunt Barb
You are in my childhood memories as far as they will take me. From holidays spent at play with my cousins to graduations and weddings, your kind presence has always been felt. We will all miss you.
My deepest sympathies to my cousins, Scott, Mari, Uncle Bill, my Dad and all those who were touched by Barb.
Jay
Barbara was a joy to work with.
We first met Barbara at Hillsdale College. She was beautiful and always had a smile. They were at our wedding and we at their wedding, in Traverse City, Mi.
When Barbara moved to Washington, we saw very little of her, but we always exchanged Christmas cards. Barbara would send photos and notes about her girls, Mari, and their trips.
We were saddened when we heard that she was very ill. It was comforting to know that her daughters loved her, and were doing everything possible to care for her. As time passes, they will cherish her memory and thank God that they were there for their Mother, when she needed them most.
Sincerely,
Denny and Jackie
Sue and I offer our sincerest condolences to the Stedman and Jerome families. We knew Barb best as youths in Traerse City. She was a winner and fondly remembered. Hank Johnson
Dear Kristen and Julie, Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Your Mom was a Special Lady and she will be missed so much. Knowing her at Brigadoon and later on the AST program at Boeing was a delite. God Bless you all.
Ed & Myrna Englund
Mari and I were talking about readings from the Bible for Barb’s memorial service, and she suggested the “love is patient, love is kind” passage from 1st Corithians. I told her that this was a passage that is traditionally read at weddings, so that it wasn’t really a good fit for a memorial service. But then I went and re-read this passage, which says:
Love is patient, love is kind.
It is not jealous, it is not pompous,
It is not inflated, it is not rude,
it does not seek its own interests,
it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury,
it does not rejoice over wrongdoing
but rejoices with the truth.
It bears all things, believes all things,
hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never fails.
Now as I understand it, this passage is not only describing love, but it is describing God as well. But as I read this passage, it dawned on me that this passage actually was a pretty darn good description of Barb, who really did reflect and model God’s love in so many was, no matter what the situation or the circumstances.
I will miss her
I worked with Barbara at Boeing on the AOA/AST Program. She was a joy to work with and was always very helpful. I will always remember her as a gentle, kind, and happy lady with a great smile. I offer my condolences and prayers to her family. She will be missed by everyone who knew her.
THE WORLD IS A BETTER PLACE BECAUSE BARBARA STEDMAN PASSED THIS WAY. SHE WAS A GOOD AND LOVING PERSON AND A WONDERFUL FRIEND. GOD BLESS AND KEEP HER IN HIS LOVING ARMS AND MAY SEE SHE THE FACES SHE SO LOVED THAT WENT BEFORE HER. I WILL MISS HER VERY MUCH. PAULAMARIE
My thoughts and prayers go out to Barb’s family during this time of great loss. I worked with Barb for several years on AST, and will always remember her warm smile. She was truly a part of the “AST Family”. Barb was a sweet, loving, and kind person, always willing to help, very professional, and fun to work with. We will all miss her very much. I pray God’s peace on her family.
I am happy Aunt Barb is at peace and no longer in pain–the other Barb Stedman Olds is surely welcoming her into heaven with open arms! Even though we were on opposite coasts Aunt Barb always had a kind word or a funny story whenever we spoke. She will be missed!
To Barb’s Family,
my deepest sympathy. I have lost a very good friend of many years!
Love,
Mary Lou Hewson
Dear Girls and family, I would give the world to be with you on the 15th. Your Mother was a dear friend of mine and a wonderful person in every way. Always, I will remember Barb’s great smile and wonderful disposition even when things were rough. Love, Lois Ann
Barb,As your hairdresser and friend ,I will miss our time together we had.I know you are without pain now and at peace and for that we are all grateful.Im so happy you were part of my life and with that You will always be remembered. Di
We enjoyed knowing Barbara and are very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Our hearts and thoughts are with you in this time of loss. We will remember Barb always and cherish our memories.
The many years that I have worked with Barb and got to know her and her family grew into a lifelong friendship that will always be with me for the rest of my life. I also miss her very much, and my prayers are with you, Kirsten & Julie.
My prayers and thoughts go out to all of Barbara’s family. She was truely one of a kind. She had the biggest heart of anyone I ever knew and was such a dear sweet lady. She will be missed very much and is loved by many of us here from the Boeing “AST” Family. She will be in heaven in time to decorate for the holidays…..she always loved to do that.
Barb was a great lady, and was a joy to work with. We will always remember the good times.
Barbara was such a great person and took responsibility so seriously. She was fun loving and cared so much about her daughters and friends. We remember her loving the sun Maui and swimming. She was good at that too. She is in a better place now where the sun shines all the time, the palm trees wave in the warm breeze and the ocean is like a beutiful jewel where she can float all day.
We will miss you, Barb.
Eda and Millie
I will always remember Barb as the perfect mix of grace with a sense of humor. She’s missed muchly. I count myself blessed to have known her.
Barb was a great person to work with and a loyal friend. We will all miss her greatly, especially her kindness and cheerful but responsible personality. I value highly the time spent with her.
We are so grateful for Aunt Barb’s life on Earth! Barb, her daughters, son-in-law, and Mari have consistently modeled God’s love and grace to our family. The life they designed together and the mutual respect and love they share for one another has been a continued source of inspiration for our young family. We hold you in highest regard. You are all in our thoughts and prayers daily. What a beautiful life you had together! We are so grateful to call you relatives and friends! We will always cherish our memories of Barb!
With Love and Respect,
Chip and Maria Jerome
and Children
We will miss Barbara. Heavan has just become a brighter place.
Dear Barb was a genuine and loving soul. May the family take console in knowing Barb had many friends at Boeing that treasurered her kind & gentle ways. Her spirit will last forever in our fond memories of this wonderful lady.
I worked with Barbara on the AST program at Boeing. She was not only outstanding at her job but also had such warmth and kindness whenever you encountered her. My memories of her truly enrich the time I spent there. My deepest sympathy to all her family
I had to close my office door when I got this sad news.
Goodbye, Barabara; you are missed. Your kind and patient contenance was an example for us all. You showed me it is possible to get through each and every day by being helpful to others, without a mean word for anyone.
I will remember you in my heart always. Gary S.
I had to close my office door when I got this sad news.
Goodbye, Barbara; you are missed. Your kind and patient contenance was an example for us all. You showed me it is possible to get through each and every day by being helpful to others, without a mean word for anyone.
I will remember you in my heart always. Gary S.
Julie and Kirsten: I’m so very sorry to hear about your mom’s passing. My mom shared with me your email update and all I can say is how proud your mom must have been of you two! It’s been many years since we’ve seen each other but I remember fondly our annual visits on Christmas Eve and at the Twin Lakes Bazaar. I’m so glad to hear that you’re both doing so well and that you were so good to your mom. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this painful time and wish you all the best.
I have fond memories of working with Barb on the AST program. I remember her always with a great sense of humor and a smile. She will be very much missed.
My deepest sympathy to the family for this profound loss. In the time that I knew Barbara, she struck me as very special, loving, and committed to her family. Know that I’m thinking of her, and for the family, I’ll pray for dealing with this loss. She will be missed and I am deeply saddened.
Barbara Stedman, or as I know her Mari’s grandmother, was a very nice person and was loved by many people including me. I know she loved the Mariners and had great care from her family during her time of illness. I will her miss her smiling face at my good friend Mari’s house.
Please accept my condolences on Barbara’s passing. I worked at Teledyne Solutions Inc. TSI in Huntsville. I was there in the begining of AST and made nearly 200 trips to Seattle. Barbara was in many of those meetings. She contributed a lot to the success of AST and its contribution to the government’s needs. May god bless you and your family. Retired TSI Employee, Karl