Raul Algas Manginsay
August 17, 1946 - December 3, 2009
Obituary
RAUL ALGAS MANGINSAY SR. RUDY-
Rudy American given name was born in Manila, Philippines August 17, 1946 by father Antonino Tony Manginsay and mother Elena Algas Manginsay. At the young age of 3 his father left the family to go to America for more opportunities, this left his mother to raise their children on her own. Growing up in the Philippines he was the middle sibling of brother Rick and sister Mildred. His mother Elena a devoted Catholic, was a hard working woman washing clothes and cleaning house for other families just to feed her family. She was the provider and working so hard did not leave much time with her children. This forced them to learn to take care of themselves at a young age. Rudy was always ambitious and very talented tried to sell newspapers as a young boy to help his family. Without much money his mother could not afford clothes let alone school books or tuition, which directly resulted in Rudy not returning to school after his 6th grade year.
His life in the Philippines was a constant struggle, and without work he was not able to help his struggling and devoted mother. He became a member of ‘Bahala Na Gang’ B.N.G.- God knows Gang a very well known and dangerous group of men. His mother was a very big influence on his life constantly encouraging him to do better. He loved and admired his mother’s strong will it made him believe he could be more than what he had become. At the age of 20 around 1966 an opportunity presented itself for him to see the world as a Merchant Marine seaman, it later led him to United States. Even without an education, or the ability to speak English fluently it never discouraged him from pursuing this chance of a new start.
When he arrived in the US in 1967 he worked many strenuous hours in asparagus fields in California, fishing canneries in Alaska. In California he married then soon separated, not before fathering two sons Raul Jr. and Patrick Manginsay. He went north and found himself in Seattle Wa. working as a bus boy this is where he met a friend who turned to family. He learned to many new skills and found himself working in numerous restaurants from one diner to the next 18-21 hours a day 7 days a week. Working these exhausting hours he started to accomplish goals he set for himself which made him try harder. Starting from clothes, to cars, and then to his own home. Although it was common to the American culture, these were achievements he never imagined. He was introduced by his friends to Arcelie who had quickly became the love of his life and best friend. They together, opened a restaurant in Burien, Washington. They called it ‘Rudy’s and Sally’s Kitchenette’. Their business was a success flourishing for over 29 years, providing everything he never had for 3 children, sons Anthony and Jeffrey and daughter Raquell. Being such a pleasant and upbeat person he was also blessed with a whole town of life-long friends sharing laughter, stories, and memories. Rudy has lived and become the perfect example of the American Dream. From a life of struggle in the Philippines to a life of love and accomplished success in the US to the end.
Rudy was a honest man. He portrayed selflessness, and generosity truly dedicated to helping people. Whether it was serving you a hot meal, joking around making you laugh or even by giving advice through his own personal experiences. Many confided in him with their hardships, young men and women both respected his honesty and found themselves listening to him hours at a time. He would sit with you and let you know that life is never easy but you just have to believe in yourself you can achieve anything. Rudy had a genuine heart and did his best to never let anyone down. He has provided for his family as a loving husband and dedicated, hard working father always thinking of his family before himself. He touched the lives of many people and has left an everlasting impression on all. There will never be enough words to describe how extraordinary this man really is. He will always be cherished and never forgotten. He will continue to live on through our memories inspiring many more from the souls of whom’s hearts he has touched.
IN LOVING MEMORY OF RAUL A. MANGINSAY SR.
HE WILL BE REMEMBERED, ALWAYS MISSED AND FOREVER LOVED.
I miss you Dad. I come after work and I always look to where you used to sit and wish you were still there. I still feel your presence everywhere I go. I wish that you were here to talk to and laugh with. I just want you to be at home with us. I love you Dad. Although your gone I know your still with me.
The love for my family is stronger, now I have seen all of their strengths individualy, I couldn’t help but notice a piece of u in all of us. Lola Elena must be so happy I can see her now sitting at the table with you, making her laugh the most heart-melting laugh. Not just with her but with everyone you knew the smiles and laughter would never stop. You became a great man because of her influence, and now I will be the same by yours. So many lost souls came to you for advice and no matter who they were you inspired them to be great. Thank you father for your humor, words, thoughts, strength, support, devotion, and constant love you have given me. It has made me a better man and even greater father. You have embedded your whole being into my heart and soul and I will try to live my life as you wanted me to be… I think I can honestly say, you’ve prepared me for the world, life, and death. I appreciate all u have done for me dad, I LOVE YOU!
-Jeffrey Raul Manginsay-
My heart grows heavy crying sorrow filled tears,prayers from family and loved ones,a decision comes near.Picturing memories so clear overwhelming my mind,of struggle-love-laughter such vision of time.From child to teen-young man to father I’ve grown,every word of every lecture now used with my own.Strong-willed,never vounerable weakness nor dispare ever shown.Holding his hand no resopnse-wondering,does he know he’s not alone?Saying thoughts and feelings now?Stuck inside me for yrs,finding courage shows contrediction found along side my largest fears.Sadness controls my body,my soul constantly feeling this abuse,A few words from a man-My Mothers cry-forever my heart is badly bruised.I understand this time of mourning is celebration of life,the teachings and lessons learned with both GOD’S gifts and strife.There is no man respected more by me,never told him this before.Father take your last few breaths to become my hero.It’s complete when you’re with the LORD.
Dearest Sally and your wonderful family. What a shock for everyone who had the pleasure of knowing Rudy and all. The suffering is over and I know he is watching us all and smiling at the many tributes to his wonderful contributions to the human race. The time since opening the restaurant has flown by so fast. You are all blest with such a wonderful family who knows the real meaning of love. It is so obvious at this time. Peace without pain forever good friend Rudy and you shall remain always in our hearts. The family is in our thoughts and prayers. God bless and keep you all. Al & Ruth Ramey.
Dear Manginsay Family,
I send my deepest condolences and sympathies on your loss. I ask for God’s blessings on your wonderful family.
Hi Sally,just last month or so I drop by @ the old Rest, only to find that you guys not there anymore,sorry to hear about your lost,take care of the kids,hope they are doing ok.Rudy my best friend,hope youll find the way to meet my boys again up there,blees you all,
My uncle was a person that was true to his beliefs. He had a strong personality and made a lasting impression on everyone he met. He never let anything get him down and lived his life under his own terms. I will always remember his humor and his love of singing and dancing. He will be greatly missed.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Manginsay family. We love you.
I’m sorry for your loss, our prayers
be with you all.
DEAR SALLY,JEFF,TONY & RAQUEL.JJ AND I ARE SO VERY SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF RUDY,HE WAS A DEAR MAN AND A GENTLE SOUL,THE LORD HAS HIM WRAPPED AROUND HIS ARMS AND WILL FOREVER LOVE AND CHERISH HIS NEW SON IN HEAVEN !!!!WE LOVE YOU ALL AND ARE TRULY BLESSED TO HAVE YOU ALL AS OUR FREINDS.GOD BLESS,COREY AND JJ COUNLEY
Our Prayers and thoughts are with you all at this difficult time.
I am so very sorry for your loss. I am one of Jeff’s friends but wanted to say I am truly sorry for your loss. Just know that he is looking down on all of you smiling.
Rudy was my mentor. I remember the days with Eddie, when Rudy managed all the restaurants for him. I was fortunate enough to work with and for Rudy over many years. At one time, people would compare Rudy and I to the Karate Kid, Rudy was a wonderful Mr. Miyagi too me. Rudy taught me to work hard for what I wanted. He taught me to love my family, he taught me how to cook, he taught me what it was like to have a genuine friend, and brother. I will miss him as long as I live.
Dear Sally, Tony, Raquell & Jeff,
I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of Rudy. He was a wonderful man & my prayers are with you all.
My family & I have many memories of going to “Rudy & Sally’s Cafe” & I will never forget how happy you all made my husband Dave’s last days.
I love you all…
Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Rudy will be missed by so many. I am so sorry for your loss. Stay strong…!!!
Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Rudy will be missed by so many. I am so sorry for your loss. Stay strong…!!!
tito, thanks for everything you’ve done to my family. all the help you’ve given,your unconditional love and support to us. i know someday we will see each other again. i am proud to be one of your nephews. what you achieved in life will always be my inspiration. your one of the best people i respect and i will surely miss you tito. me and my family was looking forward to see you again next year, but sadly GOD wants you up there. i know your happy right now with granma and tito rick, i can see it right now how happy granma is. so until we meet again. see you on the crossroads uncle!
with much love,
ilzene vilero